Chapter 3: Annapurna Immersion
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ShasankoDa applied for telephone at our native place. By then we had telephone in our house in village. I was able to talk with my mom every day.
He never called back or perhaps he called and ChotoMa and Babu didn’t give me the phone to talk to. One day I searched for Bannerjee Uncle’s phone number in the telephone diary but could not get that. I tried to contact Arundhuti, but I was unable to as she also didn’t contacted me. Why she didn’t contact? ChotoMa asked me thousands of queries about Arundhuti and him. I had to tell the truth as I loved him. Definitely he might have sensed the same thing. Surely he had sensed that and he didn’t want that any type of threat should touch me. So he might have cautioned Arundhuti not to contact me. Probably Arundhuti called and she was denied the pleasure of speaking to me. She was the only person to whom I could open my heart.
The day was two days after Mahalaya. On early morning, I was brushing my teeth when the phone rang. Babu used to get up early and goto market for buying fresh vegetables. He already returned and was doing some work near the telephone. ChotoMa was in kitchen, preparing the breakfast.
Babu picked up the phone and then he called ChotoMa. I heard faint sound of their conversation.
Babu---“Should we tell Paree?”
ChotoMa---“No not now. When she will reach home then let her know from them only. I don’t’ want my child to get sad just before Puja. If possible we will go out during Puja Vacation to some place away from Kolkata.”
I came out of the bathroom; my toothbrush was still in my mouth.
I asked---“What happened?”
ChotoMa shook her head---“Nothing.”
I spit out the froth from my mouth in the washbasin and asked again---“Who called?”
Babu came near me and looked at ChotoMa---“Ulupi, we should tell her.”
ChotoMa pulled me inside my room and asked me to open the top buttons of my night gown.
I was baffled by her action and asked her---“Why what happened?”
She ordered me to open my dressing-gown and show her my bosoms. As I opened my buttons, she pushed her palms under my bosoms and pressed them under my mounds, circled those and felt those soft fleshes. I was taken aback by her actions. She pinched my nipples and asked me whether I had any pain or discharge from those or not.
I shook my head and said---“No.”
“Ok” she nodded her head and kissed my forehead “Dress up, we are going to your village.”
A writhing pain started inside my heart as what could have happened. The first thought that came in my mind as what happened to my mom? I asked her again as what happened.
ChotoMa answered---“Your Mom is fine, ShonaMa. I was thinking that since the Puja Vacation is about to start so why don’t I take you to your village few days earlier?”
She asked Babu to call a car instead of going by bus.
ChotoMa and I boarded the car and we started for my native place.
She asked me questions about my college.
---“So everything is going well in your college?”
I nodded my head as to say that “Everything is fine” but inside my heart I had an anxiety as what could have happened and that also with whom? If my mom was ok then who could be?
“How many new friends you have now?” She asked. Was she trying to divert my attention away from my anxiety? Probably yes because she was my ChotoMa.
I smiled at her---“Oh! Come on ChotoMa, I am not a child anymore. All are friends.”
She shook her and touched my chin and nudged---“ShonaMa, in college life every things become materialistic. You should be aware of that. This is not your native place, ShonaMa. This is Kolkata; people here only know others if there is something in return and that is the truth.”
She patted on my cheeks and said---“I have to have a very hard time with my daughter.”
I looked at her as to understand as what she was saying. She was trying to explain the harsh reality of the society.
I told her that I had two best friends; one was Teesta Sarkar and other Delisha Khatun.
She smiled at me and said---“Why don’t you invite them someday at our house after Puja?”
“Sure” I smiled at her.
I hesitated a little and then asked her---“ChotoMa, I have to say something.”
She gave a queer look and asked---“What?”
---“I want a cell-phone, ChotoMa. Most of my friend in college has. I feel inferiority complex.”
She smiled at me and said---“Ok, next birthday you will have your cell-phone.”
“Oh! My god.” I thought, which meant that I had to wait for another long year, as my birthday just passed on twenty-sixth August.
I shook my head and gave a childish look---“NO, no, no. That’s too late ChotoMa.”
She nodded her head and said---“Ok, baba. Christmas gift. Now happy?”
I threw my arms around her neck and kissed her cheek---“My lovely ChotoMa.”
She was a teacher, she knew human psychology, she knew well how to divert attention and she made me happy then. Sometimes I felt that how could she banish her own son out of the house?
By noon we reached our village. I ran inside the house without even paying heed to few pairs of eyes as a car has stopped in front of our house.
Probably everyone was expecting us. I saw my mom was sitting in the dining room, Meghna Boudi and Maithili was also present. I knew that Shasanko Da and Subroto were in their work place and Eldest brother was in the field. As it was noon so I thought that my eldest sister-in-law Parvati Boudi might have gone to fields to give him his lunch.
Mom and Meghna smiled at me. Mom greeted me with a bear hug and kissed my forehead. I was panting and looked around so as to find that what could have happened and to whom.
I asked mom---“What happened and to whom?”
She said---“Paree you have come a long way. Take the lunch and then rest. Everything is fine here.” While she said those words, there was grieving pain painted on her face. But I was unable to fathom that pain.
ChotoMa came in and Mom took her inside. I looked at Meghna Boudi and asked her the same question. She also didn’t say anything to me, I then looked at Maithili. She avoided me somehow and went away to her room.
Out of now-where Dushtu came running at me and I bend down to take him on my lap. He threw around his arms around my neck and I kissed his chubby cheeks.
His first question put me in an agonizing situation---“Why are you alone? Where is Abhi Uncle?” After a long, long time someone called his name. I could not believe my ears that I was hearing his name. I felt an earthquake inside my chest, gurgling out a gruesome pain. I clasped him with all my strength and looked at him.
I smiled painfully at him with my glistening eyes---“He will come next time. He has gone far away for his job and he didn’t get leave for enjoying his Puja Vacation.”
I said those words to him, same time I consoled my painful harrowing heart that one day he will come for me.
What Dushtu told me after that, shook the earth beneath my feet.
---“Bodo Jethima (eldest aunt) is in hospital. She had pain on her chest.”
I looked at him. Already I had enough pain in my small bleeding heart, and then came his words as a huge turbulent wave on the coast of my chest. I just ran with him in my lap to the room where mom was talking with ChotoMa. Parvati Boudi showered her affection silently on me always. He also knew these and he told me.
I yelled at both of them---“What is he saying? MA. WHAT are you two hiding from me?”
I shouted at them, I forgot that Dushtu was on my lap---“Why ChotoMa checked my bosoms?”
Mom got up from the bed, they were sitting. She came near me and took Dushtu from my lap and asked him to go away from the room. I observed that ChotoMa wiped the corner of her eyes. I walked to her and kneeled down by the side of the bed by her feet.
She rubbed her soothing palm on my cheeks and said---“Your Bodo Boudi is fine. She just had some chest pain and she will come back by evening.”
I looked at her with my deluged eyes and said---“You are telling me the truth? Right?”
She nodded her head---“Yes my daughter. Why should I tell you lie?”
---“Why you checked my breasts, this morning?”
---“Nothing, I was examining.”
I didn’t believe her words that Bodo Boudi had only a chest pain---“No, there is something more and you all are hiding from me.”
Mom looked at ChotoMa and signed her not to tell me anything, I observed that gesture with the corner of my eyes and I was then wounded that there was something more.
I pleaded to ChotoMa with my grieving eyes---“Please tell me.”
ChotoMa took a deep breath---“Parvati has been diagnosed with breast cancer.”
I was dumbfounded as what more pain I had to bear. I threw my arms around ChotoMa’s waist and hid my sniveled face on her lap.
I shrieked out a long---“NOOOOOOOO……… this can’t happen with me.”
ChotoMa, being a teacher said to me while gently soothing my hair
---“ jatasya hi dhruvo mrtyur
dhruvam janma mrtasya ca
tasmad apariharye'rthe
na tvam socitum arhasi.”
(For one who has taken birth, death is certain and for one who has died, birth is certain. Therefore in an inevitable situation understanding should prevail)
I was furious on hearing her Sanskrit shloka and shouted at her---“Don’t tell me all those Sanskrit shloka’s; they are not going to bring back life. I am just a young girl with flesh and blood. Just tell me why everything that I love in my life is taken away?”
She took my face between her palms and wiped my tears---“ShonaMa, you are old enough to understand things in life.”
I shook my head---“I want to goto her, NOW.”
She somehow pacified me as to keep calm.
The evening was approaching, none of my brothers returned. My heart started to beat faster with each passing second, anticipating the arduous news to come in any second.
Just then the phone rang and I ran to pick up the phone. Subroto was on the other end; he didn’t expect me to pick up the phone.
Subroto---“What are you doing?”
---“Just tell me where are you and how is Bodo Boudi?”
Subroto---“Give the phone to Mom”
I shouted at him---“Am I no one of this house? Don’t I have any right to know?”
He took a long breadth; I bit my lower lips to control myself, prepared myself for the harrowing news.
Subroto---“She is sleeping now. Chemotherapy is going on. Now will you give the phone to Mom?”
I wiped my eyes and handed over the phone to my mom. I looked around, every person was standing there anxiously waiting for my answer as what has Subroto told me.
I told them---“Bodo Boudi is going under Chemotherapy. She is sleeping now.”
At that point of time I understood as why ChotoMa felt my breasts in the morning. I looked at ChotoMa and she understood from the look of my eyes that I paid her the gratitude as what she did to me.
She told me---“Tomorrow I will take you to the hospital.”
During the night, after my brothers arrived all sat in a closed door meeting and I was not allowed to enter. On last visit at my native place, when we both were leaving, Bodo Boudi came out of her kitchen to bid us good bye. It was the first time in many years, she came out of her kitchen in her entire life to bid good bye to us. I didn’t know what he did or what he told to her. Only that pair of smiling eyes floated in front of my sniveled eyes, then.
I walked up the roof and looked up the sky. I stood in one corner of the roof, just the place where he sat few months back during our last visit.
I was desperate to meet him but also at the same time I was having the pain of losing my ChotoMa. She had done lot for me and I was in debt to her for what she did. How can I let their heads bow down in shame in front society, among the relatives? I was a girl, a naïve girl who had to die thousands times before taking any drastic steps in life.
A terrible chain of thoughts jostled inside my head. Cancer of Bodo Boudi, pain of losing my love, ChotoMa’s affection. The whole world shook violently in front of my eyes. I could not think of anything. I felt a sharp pain inside my head and all of a sudden everything went black in front of my eyes.
When I opened my eyes, I was on a bed surrounded by ChotoMa, my Mom, Meghna Boudi and my brothers.
Mom’s eyes were filled with tears as she looked at my painful face.
She asked ChotoMa in choked voice---“What’s happening to my house Ulupi?”
ChotoMa probably sensed the reason behind my ill health. She knew the truth that it was not only due to Bodo Boudi’s cancer it was something more than that.
Mom rubbed her soothing palm all over my head and face. She was in dark as what was going inside my heart. Only person who knew as what was going on was ChotoMa. But her eyes were also filled up with tears; probably she was bearing the same pain of losing his son. It was really hard to fathom as she could veil very aptly, her feelings.
ChotoMa told me---“You could goto meet your Bodo Boudi tomorrow.”
But next day also, I was not taken to hospital on pretext of something.
On Chaurthi, the fourth day after Mahalaya, I was walking towards the backyard of the house, beside the pond. Everywhere I felt his touch, in the pond, on the path. Every place in my house bore his reminiscences. I walked to the mango tree; that he planted long time ago and sat under that tree. I tried hard to feel him on the trunk of the tree. On that place, he kissed me on the last night. Still those kisses lingered on my lips, my forehead. I looked up the cobalt blue sky. The aroma of the air was filled up with Puja and Puja. But those aromas were not getting inside my brain.
Dushtu came running at me and said---“Bodo Jethima (eldest aunt) has returned to the house.”
I was more than happy, at least some solace to my painful mind and soul.
I came running to the house and found that everyone was gathered in the dining hall. I asked mom as where was Bodo Boudi (eldest sister-in-law).
She said to me---“She has just arrived. She is inside her room.”
I walked inside her room and found her lying on the bed, covered till her neck. She was so sick and so wispy, that when she smiled at me, I wanted to tell her that “Don’t smile just be there on bed and stand on your feet for my sake.”
From that day I was always by her side for every moment and also at night. Her left breast was amputated. She was on chemo. She was gradually regaining her strength although she was very weak, but at least she was able to sit on the bed and walk to the bathroom.
On Navami, ninth day of Durga Puja, she felt better than previous days. I helped her to take bath and she looked at me while I was combing her hair. Most of the hair had fallen by then due to chemotherapy.
She whispered in a very weak voice---“Paree, I want to goto to the Durga Mandir, will you take me?”
I told her “Why not?”
---“Today evening?”
---“Yes, sure. We all will go. Mom, ChotoMa, Sumanto Da, Meghna Boudi, Dushtu, and Maithili everyone will go with you.”
The evening came; I was very happy to find that Bodo Boudi was able to walk and would goto to the Durga Mandir. I was in her room when helping her to get dress up. I dressed her in a red cotton saree. Her smiling face was trying to say something else which I was unable to understand. She asked me to take out a beautiful sky blue and white check Sambalpuri silk saree from the almirah. I asked her as what was that. She told me that my brother brought that one for her but she wanted me to wear that on that day.
I wore that saree and came down to her room. Everyone was looking at me. I smiled to everyone. My mom came near me and kissed me on the forehead. Bodo Boudi was sitting on the bed with a wooden box in her hand. She patted on the bed beside her and asked me to sit.
She rubbed her soothing palm all over my face and with hazy eyes looked at me.
I asked---“Why are you crying? You will be ok?” but I was not a child anymore and I also knew that the clock was ticking very fast. The winded spring of the clock has reached the optimum and it would stop any moment.
She said---“I am just beholding how beautiful you are.” She handed me that wooden box and opened that. I saw, it was filled up with few gold bangles and three gold chains and few pairs of gold earrings.
I was bewildered as what was she going to do?
She said nothing and picked up one gold necklace and put that around my neck. Then she put another one and then she made me wear a pair of big gold earring.
Large drops of tears were rolling down her cheeks as she was slowly pushing those gold bangles on my wrist.
After she finished, she took my face between her palms and asked me to call Sumanto Da.
I called Sumanto Da.
She looked at him and said---“See how beautiful your sister is looking. Just like a fairy from the heaven has descended on the earth.”
She gently caressed my cheeks. My chest already gurgled in some unknown fear.
I placed my palms over her to enjoy every bit of her soothing caresses on my soft cheeks.
All of a sudden she held her chest, her bust convulsed. As if small waves crushed on her repeatedly. I held her in my arms, tightly and screamed out for my mother. Sumanto Da asked her to lie down.
She shook her head---“No, let me lie down in her arms only.”
Her upper torso convulsed repeatedly. Blood oozed out of the bandaged chest.
Her lips were dry. Those lips shook a bit and she raised her right hand over my head.
I cried out till my last drop of strength was exhausted---“Ma, come quickly.”
All of them came running inside the room.
She raised her hand and put her palm on my head---“I am happy that you are here.”
I held her tightly across my chest---“YOU CAN”T LEAVE ME LIKE THAT. NO, NO, NO.”
The blood from her chest already soaked the upper part of my saree and my blouse.
My sight was hazy then, who cared what was happening around me.
She closed her teary eyes. Her head bent on my lap and her hand fell on her side after sometime like an old dried twig.
My eldest brother, Sumanto Da came near me and took my head in her arms. I was unable to breathe properly as my chest was convulsing. Boudi’s lifeless body in my arms and I was helpless.
Sumanto Da said to me---“Everything has finished. Nothing is left here for me.”
My Bodo Boudi was no more among us. On that day, when everyone was enjoying the Navami Puja, I had to immerse my Goddess Annapurna forever.
I knew that every year Devi Durga comes to make our life filled up with joy and happiness, but my Annapurna, Parvati Boudi won’t come back to me again.
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